Bhagavad Gita 11.42 — Forgiveness for Disrespect Shown in Jest

A Humble Request for Forgiveness

Arjuna brings his reflection to its natural conclusion. After recognising the Lord's greatness, he feels the need to ask forgiveness for any careless words or actions of the past.

Yac cāvahāsārtham asat-kṛto'si (whatever disrespect was shown in jest): The word avahāsa means joking or mockery. Between close companions, teasing is natural, but Arjuna now sees that even playful behaviour may have shown insufficient reverence.

Vihāra-śayyāsana-bhojaneṣu (while playing, resting, sitting or eating): Arjuna lists the ordinary moments of shared life: leisure, rest, seated conversation and meals. The Lord was present in all of them, and Arjuna now recalls them with a new awareness.

Eko'tha vāpy acyuta tat-samakṣam (alone or in front of others, O Acyuta): The word acyuta means one who never falls. Whether in private or public, Arjuna may have acted without due respect. The Lord, who never falls from his greatness, remains ever worthy of reverence.

Tat kṣāmaye tvām aham aprameyam (for that I beg your forgiveness, O immeasurable one): Arjuna does not justify himself. He simply asks for forgiveness, which is the sign of a humble heart.

Message for Everyday Life (The Strength of Apology)

Apologise sincerely: A genuine apology heals relationships and frees the heart from the weight of regret. It is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Practical approach: If you have hurt someone, even unintentionally, acknowledge it without excuses and ask for forgiveness. Doing so restores trust and brings inner peace.